Adam and I started dating in 2003. We started 'not preventing' in February 2008, and got married on September 20, 2008. That was supposed to be the beginning of our 'happily ever after,' but instead it has been a marriage full of blood (and other bodily fluid) tests, an HSG, Clomid, one IUI, and a lovely laparoscopy. Oh, and did I mention the negative pregnancy tests? There has been just a few (hundred) of those, too, in the 5+ years and 60+ cycles we've tried to create new life.